On Nov. 11, the IHM Sisters gathered at the Motherhouse to celebrate Sister Marietta Murphy’s milestone as a centenarian. With more than eighty years as a dedicated teacher, mentor, and spiritual guide, Sister Marietta has touched countless lives across Michigan and beyond. The day was filled with laughter, love and cherished memories, honoring her remarkable life.
A Life rooted in faith and service
Sister Marietta Murphy’s story began in Buffalo, New York. Growing up in a close-knit family, she was shaped by her parents’ love and the bonds with her three siblings. However, tragedy struck shortly after her 14th birthday when her parents passed away. Young Marietta moved to Detroit to live with Aunt Dora and Uncle Joe. Marietta attended St. Catherine School, where the IHM Sisters taught her and sparked a light leading to her lifelong vocation. Inspired by their dedication, she often dreamed of joining them. As a child, she even played “school” at home, draping a makeshift habit around her shoulders and imagining herself as a sister. Her teachers, especially the Mercy Sisters who had guided her in grade school, nurtured her love of service and by eighth grade, she had already declared her desire to become a sister. After high school, Marietta joined the IHM community, but her journey wasn’t immediate. She initially left after a few months, feeling uncertain. After some time at secretarial school, she grew into her decision and returned to the congregation with renewed clarity.
A Teacher, a leader, and a friend
Sister Marietta’s early teaching missions took her across Michigan, from St. Joseph in Dexter to the Hall of Divine Child in Monroe. She taught with love and patience, always aware that each child was a gift to be cherished and guided. Her assignments brought her to Mobile, Alabama, and several schools in Detroit, where she held roles as a teacher and principal. She made her mark at Holy Name in Birmingham, Michigan, where she served as principal from 1966 to 1975. So profound was her influence that in 1971, her 25th anniversary as a sister was celebrated with “Sister Marietta Day.” Even years later, Holy Name parishioners fondly recalled her dedication and kindness.
Sister Marietta’s journey took her to Immaculate Heart of Mary High School in Illinois, where she taught American history and inspired a new generation of students. While earning her master’s degree at the University of Notre Dame, she served as a rector at Badin Hall, and her heart embraced everything about Notre Dame. As a parting gift, the university presented her with a personalized Notre Dame chair—an honor that would always remind her of her cherished time there.
A 100th birthday celebration
On Monday, Sister Marietta’s 100th birthday, the IHM community gathered to celebrate a life lived to the fullest. Friends, family, and Sisters in the community gathered for a prayer service. The Mayor of Monroe arrived to present Sister Marietta with a birthday greeting on behalf of the city, recognizing her service to the community and beyond. The Pope sent a Papal Blessing, a heartfelt acknowledgment from the Church that Sister Marietta had devoted herself. Governor Whitmer, too, had sent a letter honoring her milestone. It was especially touching for Sister Marietta to hear a letter read aloud from the newly inaugurated President of The University of Notre Dame, Rev. Robert Dowd, CSC.
During the service, Sister Marietta’s niece sat beside her, joined by more than a dozen other family members from all over the country who had come to celebrate. The room’s affection for Sister Marietta was evident; her family’s presence was a testament to the love and legacy she had built over a century. After the service, everyone gathered in the Maxis Community Room for a breakfast reception, including an Irish football-themed birthday cake. Sister Marietta, with a spark in her eye and a smile that could light up any room, listened as memories of her teaching and friendships were shared. It was truly a celebration worthy of a century well-lived!
A Legacy of love
Sister Marietta is still sweet and sometimes feisty despite her memory challenges. She resides in the skilled nursing unit of the IHM Senior Living Community in Monroe and would love to hear from former students and old friends from her days in active ministry. Since joining the community, Sister Marietta’s greatest joy has been having the opportunity to serve the Church and “just being an IHM Sister.” She also appreciates “having had the privilege to teach so many children.”